What to Do When a Listing Agent Proposes a Different Showing Time
A practical way to handle counter-times without losing the day, confusing your buyer, or creating avoidable scheduling problems.
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Treat a Proposed Time as a Schedule Change
A listing agent says 10:30 will not work. They offer 11:15 instead.
The easy reaction is to accept quickly so you do not lose the showing. The better reaction is to look at the entire day first. A showing time is connected to everything around it. You may already have a confirmed stop at 11:30. The homes may be 18 minutes apart. The buyer may need to be done by 1:00. One small time change can create a chain of problems. Before you answer, look at the stops before and after the property. Ask three questions:
- Can we physically get there on time?
- Does this create a conflict with another confirmed stop?
- Does the buyer still get the day they agreed to?
If any answer is no, do not accept yet.
Check Real Drive Time
Do not judge the route by distance alone. Two homes may look close on a map and still take longer because of traffic, parking, gates, elevators, school zones, or a difficult turn. Check the expected drive time from the stop before the proposed time and to the stop after it. Then add a realistic buffer. Buyers may spend longer in a home they like. You may need to wait for an elevator. A lockbox may take a minute. If your tools support tour building with route optimization from real drive times, use that as a planning input. If they do not, a mapping tool and a written schedule can still do the job.
Protect Confirmed Appointments First
A proposed time is not more important than an appointment that is already confirmed. Suppose Stop 2 is confirmed for 11:30. Stop 1 comes back with a proposed time of 11:15. Accepting 11:15 may place both appointments at risk. Instead, reply with a specific alternative: “Thank you. We have another confirmed showing at 11:30. Would 10:45 or 12:15 work for your listing?” That is easier to answer than asking, “What other times are available?”
Keep Pending and Confirmed Stops Different
One of the easiest ways to create confusion is to treat every requested showing as though it is confirmed. Use simple labels:
- Requested
- Proposed time
- Confirmed
- Declined
- Needs follow-up
The labels matter because your next decision depends on the status. About Time Tours keeps showing requests and confirmation tracking attached to each stop, so a proposed time can stay tied to the property instead of disappearing into a text thread. You can do the same with any system. The important part is having one place where you can see the current status of every stop.
Tell the Buyer What Changed, Not Every Message
Your buyer does not need to watch the scheduling conversation happen. They do need to know when the final plan changes. A simple update is enough: “123 Oak had to move us from 10:30 to 11:15, so I shifted the next two homes slightly. We are still on track to finish by 1:30.” If the new time creates a bigger decision, involve them: “We can keep 123 Oak at 11:15, but it would mean dropping one of the other homes. Do you want to keep Oak or keep the original schedule?” Now the buyer is making a meaningful choice.
Do Not Force a Bad Route to Save One Property
Sometimes the proposed time simply does not fit. Ask for another time. Move the property to another day. Put it at the end if that works. Trying to save every stop can make the entire tour worse. A showing day is not successful because you saw the maximum number of homes. It is successful when the buyer sees the right homes without spending the day rushed, late, and confused.
Recheck the Final Plan
Once the new time is settled, review the whole schedule again. Confirm that the order makes sense, drive times are realistic, confirmed appointments do not overlap, access instructions are available, and the buyer knows the updated schedule. Then send one clean itinerary. Avoid sending several versions unless you have to. The buyer should know which version is current.
Keep the Change Attached to the Property
After the tour, you may need to remember why the route changed. Maybe a home was moved because the seller needed more notice. Maybe the listing agent offered only one window. Maybe the property was skipped. Keep that context with the stop. About Time Tours is built to keep the showing plan, showing requests, confirmations, and buyer feedback connected. Even if you use a different system, the principle is the same. When a proposed time comes in, slow down for one minute. Check the route. Protect confirmed stops. Give the listing agent a clear answer. Then send the buyer one updated plan.
Keep proposed times, confirmations and the rest of the day in one place.
Get guided setupCommon questions
- What should I do first when a listing agent proposes another time?
- Check the rest of the tour before answering. A new time can affect drive time, access windows, or another confirmed stop.
- Should I ask the buyer before I accept the new time?
- If the change materially affects the day, yes. If it stays inside a schedule the buyer already approved, you may be able to handle it without reopening the whole plan.
- What if the proposed time conflicts with another confirmed showing?
- Do not accept both and hope it works out. Ask one listing side for another option, or rebuild that part of the route first.
- How long should I wait for a response before moving on?
- Use the urgency of the tour as your guide. If the showing day is close, follow up sooner and make a backup plan rather than leaving a stop unresolved.
- Should I tell the buyer every scheduling detail?
- Tell them what affects their day. They usually do not need the full back-and-forth, but they should know when timing, property order, or access changes.
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